Thursday, December 3, 2009

Regarding Rejection

I stayed up way too late the other night to finish Maggie, Charles Martin's sequel to The Dead Don't Dance. The novel's ending, not surprisingly, required a tissue or two. But I didn't close the book after the final paragraph.

Nope. I also read the "Acknowledgements" section where Mr. Martin takes us back to the summer of the year 2000. A nearby file folder holds eighty-five rejection letters. On a yellow note stuck to his computer is the number 126, "the number of times that F. Scott Fitzgerald's This Side of Paradise had been rejected."

As he sat there, discouraged and ready to give up, his wife hands him another letter for the rejection folder. Martin writes, "She laid it on the desk, kissed me, and shook her head, 'You're not a reject to me.'" Six books later, Martin is a critically acclaimed author. He credits his perseverance to his wife, who "reached down beyond my fear and doubt, down where my love lives, and gave me a gift -- she stood beside me and believed."

These pages resonated with me as I read them the other night. Several days before I had received an email from an editor. A rejection email. A gracious and encouraging note that took the sting out of the no, but still a rejection.

Thanks to supportive family and friends who believe in me and who believe in my story, I'm not giving up. If I have to, I will persevere under the weight of a hundred more rejections. Maybe even 126.

What keeps you going when the rejection folder bulges?

Johnnie

[Note: quotations from Maggie, 2006, pages 303, 307.]

6 comments:

Shmologna said...

I was at the Blue ridge Writer's Conference in 2004 when author Steven James brought a NOTEBOOK on stage containing tons of rejection letters. He read some of the funnier ones and we all had a good laugh. It was then that I realized getting a rejection letter means you are TRYING. I haven't gotten any rejection letters yet...so there you do. I'll be excited to get my first one because that means I've taken another step in my writing journey.

KINDRED HEART WRITERS said...

Shmologna, I love your attitude! You're absolutely right -- rejections prove our efforts.

Johnnie*

Sheila Deeth said...

I started celebrating "nice" rejections with chocolate. Now I celebrate them all. I'd probably get more if I sent my stuff out more... still dreaming... but yes, it's encouraging to read about those who eventually make it.

By the way, I couldn't find a comments button, but my mouse turned into a hand so I clicked anyway and here I am, commenting.

KINDRED HEART WRITERS said...

Sheila, glad your comment got through because celebrating rejections is a great idea.

The "comments" show up in white on my monitor. Sorry you had a problem.

Johnnie*

Marty Duane said...

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Johnnie said...

Marty, thank you for the comment and the "Circle of Friends" award. We've added it to our blog.

Johnnie